tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-370967665609151271.post7825761446079371675..comments2024-02-11T06:33:00.901-05:00Comments on In LOVE & War - World's Largest Love & Dating Blog: The Big Fish Analogy - HOW DO YOU KEEP THE INITIAL ATTRACTION GOING?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06290444334062584270noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-370967665609151271.post-63630347304131622002010-12-02T04:19:47.983-05:002010-12-02T04:19:47.983-05:00That is touched on in a later lesson. In no way d...That is touched on in a later lesson. In no way does this preface imply that a man is going to ignore the woman nor show dis-interest. Just the opposite; the man needs to show enough interest if not the "big fish" is going to take the bait and leave.<br /><br />No where does it imply that the man is to play games; it simply states to keep your cool and don't over react to a hint of intimacy.<br /><br />-VinceVicente R. Santaellanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-370967665609151271.post-36612898864675792692010-12-01T18:43:28.340-05:002010-12-01T18:43:28.340-05:00I beg to differ with you on this observation. I ag...I beg to differ with you on this observation. I agree to a point with some of what you say... Whereas women most certainly do not like or want a guy who comes on too strong we definitely want to know you're "into us". There's a difference though with showing genuine interest in a woman and being "needy and clingy" for fear you will lose the woman. <br /><br />Trust me, if a woman is into you and you show interest she will not lose interest... What you are saying is that men should play games which in turn make a woman exactly what YOU DON'T WANT and often COMPLAIN about; a woman who is insecure and thus questions you and may becomes jealous of every moment spent apart. <br /><br />In my opinion; value her, be honest with her, let her know she turns you on- Just don't become needy, clingy or jealous and MOST IMPORTANTLY don't be insecure.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com