MEN: DON'T OVER DO IT & LEARN "THE BIG CHILL"
Vince Santaella- Contributor
Now that we know that giving her too much attention is a BAD thing, how do you chill out? Simply put, eliminate your desire. Even in writing, that seems easier said than done, but when you eliminate your desire, you will have complete control over your thoughts and actions.
It's like going grocery shopping. If you are starving, you are going end up buying tons a food you didn't need or want that probably isn't the least bit good for you. Not even your will power could come through for you this time. If you had just eaten before going, you would have easily been able to stick to your shopping list, because you would have had complete control over your desire to eat everything in sight.
Eliminating your desires:
1. Stay busy - School, work, friends, sports, whatever.
2. Continue to talk to other girls.
This girl should not be your number 1 priority. Staying busy and talking to other girls will prevent you from catching one-itis and feeling the need to constantly think about her and talk to her. The less there is of you to go around, the more desirable YOU are.
I'm not saying completely ignore her. You have to find a balance between giving her too much attention and not enough attention. You don't want the hook to fall out just as much as you don't want the fishing line to break.
You got it?